beauty to beast.

Hi there.

I recently met my loved one Melvina Liantoro. I still remembered that both of us spend our Chinese New Year Eve over her place in the afternoon. Later on that day, we had a dinner over my house. During the time that I spent over her cozy bedroom, she showed me something that makes me think all over again about "beauty". 

Each of us has a different types of perception of beauty. I try to imagine if I did a survey, asking people to define beauty, I think the result will definitely drive me crazy because each of us, just have our own idea about beauty. Right? 

After watching the video, I just realize that some girls are too obsessed to become the other women that they saw in magazines/television/blogs/etc/etc and etc. Alright. To me, it is fine to seek for inspirations from different sources that are available to you. But. Yes, there is a but. But if that makes you into a psycho who search a consolation from trying to reconstruct your physical appearance, aren't that crazy?! In my opinion, it seems so wrong. 

That are all the things I've watched. Girls that are not and never, feel satisfy and grateful enough of their own physical appearance. It is somehow stupid and useless. Well, I think there is no point to fix and try to beautify yourself in your own ways. Don't you think that you have one and the only factor that you can't control? It is the men' eyes. You will not be able to control on how they should define beauty. To you, you may think that you look pretty. How about them? They won't think the same way as what you think of yourself. That's the end of the story. Period.

Why to change yourself into morons?

Why do you keep hating yourself for what you truly are?

Be grateful. 

Love yourself.

That's the key of "beauty". It flashes out through your eyes and your soul. Because to me, beauty does not lies on what you wear. It lies on your heart. It lies inside you, not what are the things on you...

much love.